Your first priority
Ask your parent which trusted person nearby they would want contacted, and confirm that person accepts the role.
Illustrative example · Not a real customer
See the next step, not just a score.
Example: an adult child lives several hours away, knows some wishes and has not confirmed a local responder.
A conversation you can use
“If I could not get there quickly, who would you feel comfortable having us call? Could we ask them together?”
A practical record
Use the emergency worksheet to note the accepted role, backup and location of current information.
Your first week might look like this
- Day 1: ask permission to plan one situation together.
- Day 3: confirm a willing local responder and backup.
- Day 7: review the plan together and clarify the first unanswered question.
Timing is flexible. Your paid report adapts to the answers you provide; additional questions refine your circumstances without changing the base score.